Sunday, March 3

Today is Sunday, March 3, 2024. It’s been almost 4 years since we started the Daily Gift of Vitality and we have posted over 575 messages of connection!

The Daily Gift of Vitality started as a daily anchoring message that grew out of requests from proactive and innovative department leaders at Rush University Medical Center, who listened, observed, and recognized a need to care for all persons connected to caring for others at the start of the Pandemic. It was distributed to 10’s of thousands of individuals through various caring companies and organizations around the world.

Our purpose was:

  1. To provide a single simple message simultaneously to everyone everywhere allowing individuals to learn and practice simple self-regulating actions every day for optimal health, function & recovery.
  2. To provide a reliable daily anchor- keeping it simple, easy to learn and remember – that is quick to apply.
  3. To provide a routine. Each message aimed to maintain a standardized, dependable structure to allow it to be used as a “routine” to start a day, transition from a “work” to “home” mindset or after reading/watching news/social media, or to end the day.
  4. To create a safe space to rest and recharge. The messaging was intentionally designed to provide a “safe” space and deliberately avoid using terms that could be triggering and common in current communications (ie. COVID19, pandemic, outbreak, election, etc.).
  5. To establish an easy-to-implement way to keep people connected & cared for despite being physically in different spaces.


Early on, we developed a daily anchoring statement. It can still be useful now and in the future.

“I am [*Name*]. I am doing what I can to be helpful. I love myself because I have kindness and love in my heart and soul. I am part of the global community, and we are all working together to get through this. This is temporary. We can do this. As I think about those I love and care for, I send loving kindness out to all people.”

We included an activity to release negative energy. Starting with belly breathing to stimulate the vagus nerve to calm your body, and augmenting with the healing power of box breathing.

  • Roll your shoulders back, smile to yourself, & relax your jaw.
  • Take slow deep belly breaths, allowing your stomach to rise with each breath in and relax with each breath out. You may find that each breath gets better and better. Allow your shoulders to relax on each exhale.
  • Advance the healing power of deep breathing with Box Breathing (Sama Vritti Pranayama).
    • Breathe in through your nose for a count of 4.
    • Try to feel the breath in your nose.
    • Hold your breath for a count of 4.
    • Exhale for a count of 4. Hold for a count of 4.

*You can change the duration of breathing, holding and exhaling to your comfort zone.

Looking back, we can see and have gratitude for all of the individuals that contributed to creating this safe space, including those who allowed us to share their beautiful photographs with the world and those who have inspired us and healed us through their wise words. Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD, who shared today’s photo, “Sunset over Lake Erie.”

Good news. Through this journey, we confirmed that around the world, there are humans that want to help others, to care for one another, to relieve suffering and to help heal other humans. We can be stronger and experience more joy by joining together. As Bono from U2 reminds us, “We are the people we have been waiting for.”

Moving forward, our future DGoV posts and posting frequency are being reconsidered. As compassionate and loving beings, please continue to stay connected to other humans and the positive energy around you. Thank you for the opportunity to hold this safe space for you since March of 2020.


With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, February 18

Today is Sunday, February 18, 2024. Amazing day!

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Think back on the last week and quickly jot down anything wonderful, interesting, fun, inspiring from your week. In the future, you can look back at this list and add to it.

“The desire to reach for the stars is ambitious. The desire to reach hearts is wise.” – Maya Angelou

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD for sharing this photo, “Telluride Sunset, Colorado.”

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, January 14

Today is Sunday, January 14, 2024. Continuing on.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Two weeks into the new year. Time for a mid-month review.

Staying true to yourself:

  • Remind yourself of your aspiration. Say it out loud.
  • Reflect: 2 weeks into the new year, are you making choices that align with your aspiration(s)?
  • Plan: What can you do by the end of the month that moves you in the direction of your aspiration. Make it clear to yourself what you can do and how you will know that you have achieved it.
  • Make it easier: As usual, writing it down will help focus your energy towards your aspiration(s) because it is more front-of-mind.  

Remember: While the course may change throughout the year, you can make progress by returning the focus to your aspirations for the year. Pull out a fresh calendar and every day that you state your intentions out loud, or take action towards your aspirations, give yourself a win and mark it on the calendar.  

A quote by Victoria Arlan, “The climb might be tough and challenging, but the view is worth it. There is a purpose for that pain; you just can’t always see it right away.”

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD for sharing this photo, “Lysefjord Waterfall Norway.”

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, October 15

Today is Sunday, October 15, 2023. Walking outside, crisp and fresh.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: On waking, gently stretch and loosen the body and feel the fascia and muscles get activated.

A quote by James L. Oschman, “Your fascia forms the largest system in the body as it is the system that touches all the other systems.”

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD for sharing this photo, Burning bushes in fall, Skilak Lake, Kenai Fjords National Park, Alaska

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, September 3

Today is Sunday, September 3, 2023. The seasonal changes begin again. The cycle continues.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Get outside into a space that brings you close to nature and beauty, where you can safely walk, ride, bike, or swim. Spend some time moving around in, and being a part of, Nature. Avoid headphones or obligations for the moment. Enjoy the solitude. Let your mind wander and be free to think about whatever you want.

A quote by Marcus Aurelius, “You have power over your mind- not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD, for sharing this photo, Lotus Flower.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, August 27

Today is Sunday, August 27, 2023. Whoops! Last days of August already.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity:

  • Recall a time in your life when you felt incredibly proud and fabulous about yourself. Visualize it in detail, feel those feelings.
  • Next, give it a name- label it. “Graduation diploma,” “First date,” “Race completed,” “Proposal accepted,” “Goal achieved,” “New place.”
    • Throughout the week, say the name as you recall that moment and the feelings repeatedly until they are linked to the label. Soon, you will be able to recall those powerful feelings just by repeating the label. You can then get yourself in that state of mind when you need it.

A quote by Leonardo DaVinci, “Realize that everything connects to everything else.”

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD, for sharing this photo, Zion National Park.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Friday, April 28

Today is Friday, April 28, 2023. This week is closing out April.   Think about this: Stress pushes for change and humans are designed to be able to handle large amounts of stress. Depending on the response- the flexibility, the ability to learn, the adaptation- this can lead to getting stronger, wiser and all around better. What makes this possible? A chance for processing and recharging and healing. There must be a time “after” the stress where recovery and improvement can take place. Sometimes it is while sleeping, sometimes while meditating, journaling or being in nature and other times, sharing the experience with a safe someone who you trust. DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: When you are experiencing high levels of stress, find time to pause and create an artificial “close” to the stress cycle and allow some recharge time even if it is temporary. Slow down your breathing and remind yourself, “I can do this.”   A quote by Eric Maisel, “A long, deep breath is the equivalent of a full stop and the key to centering.” Thank you to Erin Burden for sharing this lovely photo. With gratitude and appreciation for all beings, Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Friday, April 14

Today is Friday, April 14, 2023. There comes a time when a fresh start, a reset is necessary. Maybe that is today.

Think about this: It’s easier to imagine the fresh start or reset when there is a clear end and a clear marker to starting. For example, the beginning of the new year, the day after graduation, the new season, a celebration, a new haircut, “after” the trip.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Consider shortening the time in between new starts and the end. Rather than waiting a whole year for the year to end and for New Year’s Day to start something new, consider a new start on Saturday morning. Friday night, close out your previous “cycle” in some meaningful way and reset for a fresh beginning tomorrow morning.

A quote by Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley, “The beginning is always today.”

Thank you to Zeke Tucker for sharing this lovely photo.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Friday, March 17

Today is Friday, March 17, 2023. This week marks 3 years since our journey began with the Daily Gift of Vitality. While many seem to have moved on and left the past 3 years behind, we have all been affected, some more than others. There is still much to process, to learn from, to improve upon, and to make peace with. This is the time to join together.

Think about this: Humans have the power to heal other humans through relationships. Creating an emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually safe space with another person, and practicing self-compassion and compassion for others, accelerates healing, recovery, and the ability to thrive- for all those involved in that nourishing relationship. Given that life has 50% fabulous and 50% not-so-fabulous parts, and that they are not always equally distributed at the same time, it helps to have those relationships to get through the toughest times.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Let’s create that safe space where we can join with others in the days ahead. Practice being that safe person. Practice compassion towards yourself and others. By accepting and being accepted, through loving and sharing an experience of belonging, you will experience the power of humans to heal other humans.  

A quote by Yoko Ono, “Healing yourself is connected with healing others.”

Thank you to Florian Giorgio for this photo.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Friday, December 30

Today is Friday, December 30, 2022. Snuggled up ready for a brisk walk outside.

A quote by Ryunosuke Satoro, “Individually, we are one drop. Together, we are an ocean.”

Photo by: Birger Strahl

This last week of the year, another year to set up for continued progress. This is a time for reflection, appreciation, and grace. As you reflect back on your accomplishments for the past year, were there times that you allowed yourself grace in dealing with challenging situations.  How did that feel?

Practice this Mindfulness Activity to Re-energize your Body and Mind whenever you need a moment to reset – while waiting, before, after, or to transition between activities.

Establishing a regular practice of pausing makes it easier to reset when you need it the most. You can start your practice at any time, even now.

  • Straighten your spine. Roll your shoulders back and down, smile to yourself, & relax your jaw.  
  • Take slow deep belly breaths, allowing your stomach to rise with each breath in and relax with each breath out. You may find that each breath gets better and better. Allow your shoulders to relax on each exhale. 
    • Visualize your healing breath.
      • As you breathe in and feel your lungs inflate, visualize that flow of oxygen reach all parts of your body & revitalize all of your cells.
      • As you breathe out, feel your body settle.
      • With each breath, feel how you are recharging your body.
      • Remember, you were designed to heal.

Recharge yourself, tap into your strength and share positive energy when you repeat:  

“I am [*Name*]. I can do this. This is temporary. I have successfully handled difficult challenges in the past. As I connect to my inner self, I am open to the Happiness and positive energy around me. I send loving kindness and compassion to all people including me. Together, we can do great things.”

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP