Sunday, March 3

Today is Sunday, March 3, 2024. It’s been almost 4 years since we started the Daily Gift of Vitality and we have posted over 575 messages of connection!

The Daily Gift of Vitality started as a daily anchoring message that grew out of requests from proactive and innovative department leaders at Rush University Medical Center, who listened, observed, and recognized a need to care for all persons connected to caring for others at the start of the Pandemic. It was distributed to 10’s of thousands of individuals through various caring companies and organizations around the world.

Our purpose was:

  1. To provide a single simple message simultaneously to everyone everywhere allowing individuals to learn and practice simple self-regulating actions every day for optimal health, function & recovery.
  2. To provide a reliable daily anchor- keeping it simple, easy to learn and remember – that is quick to apply.
  3. To provide a routine. Each message aimed to maintain a standardized, dependable structure to allow it to be used as a “routine” to start a day, transition from a “work” to “home” mindset or after reading/watching news/social media, or to end the day.
  4. To create a safe space to rest and recharge. The messaging was intentionally designed to provide a “safe” space and deliberately avoid using terms that could be triggering and common in current communications (ie. COVID19, pandemic, outbreak, election, etc.).
  5. To establish an easy-to-implement way to keep people connected & cared for despite being physically in different spaces.


Early on, we developed a daily anchoring statement. It can still be useful now and in the future.

“I am [*Name*]. I am doing what I can to be helpful. I love myself because I have kindness and love in my heart and soul. I am part of the global community, and we are all working together to get through this. This is temporary. We can do this. As I think about those I love and care for, I send loving kindness out to all people.”

We included an activity to release negative energy. Starting with belly breathing to stimulate the vagus nerve to calm your body, and augmenting with the healing power of box breathing.

  • Roll your shoulders back, smile to yourself, & relax your jaw.
  • Take slow deep belly breaths, allowing your stomach to rise with each breath in and relax with each breath out. You may find that each breath gets better and better. Allow your shoulders to relax on each exhale.
  • Advance the healing power of deep breathing with Box Breathing (Sama Vritti Pranayama).
    • Breathe in through your nose for a count of 4.
    • Try to feel the breath in your nose.
    • Hold your breath for a count of 4.
    • Exhale for a count of 4. Hold for a count of 4.

*You can change the duration of breathing, holding and exhaling to your comfort zone.

Looking back, we can see and have gratitude for all of the individuals that contributed to creating this safe space, including those who allowed us to share their beautiful photographs with the world and those who have inspired us and healed us through their wise words. Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD, who shared today’s photo, “Sunset over Lake Erie.”

Good news. Through this journey, we confirmed that around the world, there are humans that want to help others, to care for one another, to relieve suffering and to help heal other humans. We can be stronger and experience more joy by joining together. As Bono from U2 reminds us, “We are the people we have been waiting for.”

Moving forward, our future DGoV posts and posting frequency are being reconsidered. As compassionate and loving beings, please continue to stay connected to other humans and the positive energy around you. Thank you for the opportunity to hold this safe space for you since March of 2020.


With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, February 25

Today is Sunday, February 25, 2024. Unseasonably warm. Gathering with loved ones, staying connected.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Start your day without digital inputs. Postpone engaging with a screen and let your day start with your own thoughts and feelings. Let you choose what you focus on. See how it feels. Notice how you experience your day.

“Every breath we take, every step we make, can be filled with peace, joy and serenity.” – Thich Nhat Hanh

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD for sharing this photo, “Spring Garden Show.”

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, February 18

Today is Sunday, February 18, 2024. Amazing day!

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Think back on the last week and quickly jot down anything wonderful, interesting, fun, inspiring from your week. In the future, you can look back at this list and add to it.

“The desire to reach for the stars is ambitious. The desire to reach hearts is wise.” – Maya Angelou

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD for sharing this photo, “Telluride Sunset, Colorado.”

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, January 14

Today is Sunday, January 14, 2024. Continuing on.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Two weeks into the new year. Time for a mid-month review.

Staying true to yourself:

  • Remind yourself of your aspiration. Say it out loud.
  • Reflect: 2 weeks into the new year, are you making choices that align with your aspiration(s)?
  • Plan: What can you do by the end of the month that moves you in the direction of your aspiration. Make it clear to yourself what you can do and how you will know that you have achieved it.
  • Make it easier: As usual, writing it down will help focus your energy towards your aspiration(s) because it is more front-of-mind.  

Remember: While the course may change throughout the year, you can make progress by returning the focus to your aspirations for the year. Pull out a fresh calendar and every day that you state your intentions out loud, or take action towards your aspirations, give yourself a win and mark it on the calendar.  

A quote by Victoria Arlan, “The climb might be tough and challenging, but the view is worth it. There is a purpose for that pain; you just can’t always see it right away.”

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD for sharing this photo, “Lysefjord Waterfall Norway.”

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, December 24

Today is Sunday, December 24, 2023. Think of all the love in the world that is possible with all the people in the world. It can spread and generate even more love.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: This week, look for all the ways we can send out love and joy: creating and sharing art or music, laughing together, holding hands, talking together, experiencing a new location or cuisine with another, teaching, mentoring, recognizing, and appreciating someone else. There are so many ways.

A quote by Vera Nazarian, “Sometimes, reaching out and taking someone’s hand is the beginning of a journey. At other times, it is allowing another to take yours.”

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD for sharing this photo, “Farm/Garden, Garfield Conservatory.”

An extra gift from Nicole Siparsky, MD, Dahlia, Chicago Botanic Garden.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, December 10

Today is Sunday, December 10, 2023. It seems so cozy when it is warm inside and the outside is chilly.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: This week, practice considering balanced perspectives. Whenever you find yourself feeling negative emotions or seeing things in a negative light, see if you can find the sliver lining or what good might come of it. For example, ask yourself, “what can I learn from this?” “What’s another way to think about this that gives me hope, that empowers me?”

A quote by Francis Bacon, “Silence is the sleep that nourishes wisdom.”

Thank you to Christine Kozak for sharing this photo.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, September 10

Today is Sunday, September 10, 2023. The seasonal changes begin again. The cycle continues.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Begin the process of building yourself up and to continue to get better in ways that matter to you.

  1. Think of a new habit that you would like to add to your life, for example, a movement routine on waking or a 5 minute self-reflection at the end of each day.
  2. Know why this would benefit you and write it down, “I [start my day with a smile of gratitude to the world and sun salutations when I wake up] so that [I am in control of my mind and body as I start my day with calm].
  3. Figure out how you will track it. This is your data. It should be easy, allow you to see your progress and it should allow you to feel good about it every time you engage with the habit and see the progress. For example, mark on your calendar each time you engaged with your new habit. Rate your overall mood or motivation for the day.  Or, it might be automatically tracked on a tracking device.
  4. Identify what you could do to make that desired habit fun. What would make it appealing to do? Maybe anticipation of a reward? Connecting with an accountability partner who boosts you? Seeing the streak or number of days on the calendar you achieved? Rating your mood for the day?
  5. Experiment this week with implementing your plan. Review the data as you go along.

A quote by Mark Twain, “The secret of making progress is to get started.”

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD, for sharing this photo, Vermont Lake.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, August 27

Today is Sunday, August 27, 2023. Whoops! Last days of August already.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity:

  • Recall a time in your life when you felt incredibly proud and fabulous about yourself. Visualize it in detail, feel those feelings.
  • Next, give it a name- label it. “Graduation diploma,” “First date,” “Race completed,” “Proposal accepted,” “Goal achieved,” “New place.”
    • Throughout the week, say the name as you recall that moment and the feelings repeatedly until they are linked to the label. Soon, you will be able to recall those powerful feelings just by repeating the label. You can then get yourself in that state of mind when you need it.

A quote by Leonardo DaVinci, “Realize that everything connects to everything else.”

Thank you to Nicole Siparsky, MD, for sharing this photo, Zion National Park.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, August 6

Today is Sunday, August 6, 2023. Walking around the neighborhood, the garden’s colorful harvest brings together people, sharing stories, smiles and kindness with each other.

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: Notice your energy level when you are with certain people and groups. Become aware of those who recharge you. Find ways to make sure you get enough time with those people that boost your energy.

A quote by Robert Browning, “Love is energy of life.”

Thank you to Cris Tagupa for sharing this photo.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP 

Sunday, July 30

Today is Sunday, July 30, 2023. Appreciating when one door closes, another opens.  

DGoV (Daily Gift of Vitality) Activity: A self reflection question, “What is one thing you can do now, that would possibly open up to new opportunities for current and/or future happiness for you?” 

A quote by Robert Redford, “Problems can become opportunities when the right people come together.”

Thank you to Nazrin Babashova for sharing this photo.

With gratitude and appreciation for all beings,

Naomi Parrella, MD & Fran Lee, FNP